Dirty teacher trying to sleep with student

Dear Pastor,

I hope that you are doing well and that you would respond to my letter very soon. I am a 16-year-old girl and I live at home with my parents and two siblings.

My 18-year-old sister has a boyfriend but he is cheating on her. She found out and asked him why he has to have another girlfriend. He said that he has to have another girlfriend because she is not always available. This guy is only 20 years old. He wants my sister to lie to my parents and to meet with him every weekend.

He borrowed his brother’s car and took my sister to a motel and had sex with her. When she was leaving, she saw one of her schoolteachers leaving the motel too. He told her did not know that she visited these places. She told me she did not answer him. This man is married and, since that time, he has asked her to have sex with him. She told him that she would complain to his wife.

My sister’s boyfriend is planning to go to America to study and he wants to take my sister back to the same motel before he leaves. She said that some of his friends are going to have a party over there. But she would not be able to go alone, so she wants me to accompany her.

I am still a virgin. My sister told me that this guy says he would get one of his friends to be my partner while he and my sister will go and have their time. I am not in favour of that, and we would have to lie to our parents. We could not tell them that we are going out with these guys.

My sister told me that she would give me $5,000 if I agree to go out with them.

Do you think I should tell my parents what my sister is planning to do? I do not want to have anything to do with a man. I do not know and I do not want to continue to carry secrets for my sister. She is an adult but she is still living at home, so she cannot have her own way all the time. My sister has changed for the worse since she met this guy. He has even sent nude pictures of himself to her.

A.,

Dear A.,

You do not have to say anything to your parents, but you should tell your sister that you are not interested in going out with her and her boyfriend and herself. In fact, you should tell her that you are not interested in getting involved with any man at this time.

Your sister met a man and saw one of her teachers at that place her boyfriend took her to, and, since that time, he has asked her for sex. Maybe the teacher now considers that your sister is selling her body, so he would like to take her to the same place.

Where would your sister get money to give you? I will answer my own question. It is likely that she is getting money from her boyfriend. Do not take any money from your sister, and warn your sister that, if she continues to fool around with her present boyfriend, he will eventually view her as someone who is very cheap, and one whom he can use anytime he wishes to do so.

Pastor